Operation Renovation: Lesson One
Our old home began its makeover in April of last year. It wasn’t hard to figure out what needed to be done first—the kitchen floor. It was a white linoleum…
Read MoreThe Realization…
“This home is not a safe place for me.” The words cut like a knife. They dove down into the deepest place of my motivation and pride, and locked…
Read MoreA Time for Family
There are seasons in life where all else is put aside to concentrate on one thing. That one thing takes much time, most thoughts, focused efforts, and everything else becomes…
Read MoreThe Life Partner’s Role (Excerpt from A CHiP on my Shoulder, Third Edition)
As our officer’s closest relationship, we have an incredible opportunity as spouses, and responsibility. You and I know our officers intimately. We know how they think, and why they act…
Read MoreLabor Day 2017
Labor Day unofficially begins the first day of fall. I’m excited to see the summer go, ushering in the dawn of a new season. Here in Northern California, the hot,…
Read MoreSpecial Announcement!
A few weeks ago, I mentioned on my Facebook page that there were some exciting developments under construction, and that soon an announcement would be made. That time has come!…
Read MoreGrieving Alongside Others
This past week our department (California Highway Patrol) said goodbye to Motor Officer Lucas Chellew after he died from a crash on duty. At the funeral, there were many there…
Read MoreDecompressing From an Intense Year
“It took a few months for the incident to finally hit me emotionally,” Andrea explained. “Then I couldn’t think straight. I felt depressed, sometimes angry. I found myself crying a…
Read MoreHope
Yesterday Chief and I attended the funeral of Deputy Dennis Wallace from Stanislaus County, California. He was the latest officer from California to be executed by gunfire. I’ve been to…
Read More40 Days of Gratitude
Yesterday marked 40 days until Thanksgiving. At church our pastor talked about unity and what that looks like. He first of all said that unity doesn’t mean that we have…
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